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What happened to your girlfriend is not anywhere NEAR your fault, and the best thing to do is to just step away and let her get help. The girl obviously has some very, very deep rooted issues, and ANYTHING could have triggered them to come to the surface and cause her to basically go off the deep end. This is NOT your fault. She could have had a bad day at school, gotten yelled at by her parents, lost a friend, ANYTHING. Just because you were the so called trigger does NOT mean you should take ANY blame. Don't even say hi to her. I know you guys went out, but it obviously upset her when you two broke up, causing all of her other issues to come flooding to the surface. If you try to get involved, but you don't like her, it's going to cause her unthought of amounts of stress, and it will eat away at her. She is mentally unstable, and therefore is not in any state to deal with such a thing. What she needs now is help, and only help, with nothing else interfering. Once you are SURE she is 10% ok, if you REALLY want to you can try to go out with her again. But if you're truly not interested, just remove yourself from her life completely. I know it sounds harsh, but it really is what's best for her. Right now she needs to get everything else straightened out.
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