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12-28-2007, 11:03 AM
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I'm Gay. I'm not to ready to open up about it yet. I've told 3 of my closest friends, one of them also being another guy who is gay. I have really strong feelings for him...do I tell him. Also...I wanna come clear about my sexuality, but I worry too much of what peoplethink of me...
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12-28-2007, 03:14 PM
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Most of the guys I have been attracted to were like, 10 years older than me at the least. Mostly I'm attracted to guys in their 40s. I'm 17.
I think I may have a father complex...
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12-28-2007, 04:24 PM
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I think that you should stay until your ready to come out. Until your comfortable.
Losing some friends and respect from family may or may not happen, but in the end it will make you stronger. Along the way you'll also make new friends, and your family will warm up to the idea.
As for the person above me, Age isnt nothing but a number.
And as long as the guy isnt married, go for it.
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12-28-2007, 04:37 PM
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^ Yes I agree. If he's not married and ya know he'll treat ya good. Totally go for it. Age means shit. 
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12-28-2007, 04:48 PM
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Uhhhh dude, isn't it illegal for a 17 year old and a 40 year old to be together? 
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12-28-2007, 06:02 PM
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I know this account isn't really supposed to be used for relationship advice, but I really don't know where else to go to with this, and hopefully once you read it, you'll realize why I'm going about it this way...
I have a girlfriend, but she lives many states away, so its a long distance relationship. We met online and have never physically met. We won't be able to until after she graduates high school in 09. We met online about 15 months ago, and began dating in July, and I love her to death. I have always felt that she was the one for me, going all the way back to a few weeks before we began dating, but now I'm not so sure. I mean, I still think she's the one, but I feel like the only way to know for sure is if I look at other girls, you know? I mean, I have NEVER been in a physical relationship with a girl.
I kinda want to take a break with her, just be good friends for now, and kinda explore. Not explore as in sleep around, but explore as in see what happens.
Like, there are a couple other girls I really like, but none of them live near me. However, I have a feeling I can find a few girls I like at my school.
The problem is, my girlfriend has a history of cutting, and we're working together to get her past that. She hasn't cut in a month, and before that, it was September the last time she did it. I'm scared that if we break things off for now, she'll go back to that!
What should I do?
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12-28-2007, 06:27 PM
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I am not in a position to give advice about that issue.
But you need for your sake to go in your own direction while staying in close touch with her. Let her know that it is a short-term break and that when ye are older ye can meet up for good. Tell her to explore aswell, and show her that you still support her quest to avoid cutting 
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12-28-2007, 08:31 PM
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I really feel like this is all my fault... I KNOW it ISN'T so please don't keep telling me it isn't I've heard that enough today... Aaron was kicked out of the house.. He and mom and dad had a meeting with Child Services... I don't know when I do. But anyway Child Services obviously said that he couldn't be in the same house as me... So He moved in with his Girlfriends dad... Brit doesn't live with her dad though. Any way... I'm scared shitless.. And I feel like if I'd have kept my mouth shut all would be ok right now... Stupid ass dreams that had to torment me till I told.... GOD!!
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12-29-2007, 12:54 AM
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I need to hear the story before the beginning to help you.
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12-29-2007, 01:08 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ohhaipostsecret
I have a girlfriend, but she lives many states away, so its a long distance relationship. We met online and have never physically met. We won't be able to until after she graduates high school in 09. We met online about 15 months ago, and began dating in July, and I love her to death.
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How sad. Seriously. Intranetz dating is so stupid.
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