Post Secret

[sweety7852000]

You may counsel them but it doesn't mean you know what they are thinking. Not to be a B**** or anything. But pigster is right. It's not their faults they think about it. Sh*t happens. And they think that its one thing that they can control in their lives. Some people have different reasons. But still. And again like I said before. She is getting help she is coming to us. That's getting help. I came here before I went ANYWHERE else. I wouldn't have told anyone but I felt safe here. And saying that it's Dumb and stuff like that isn't helping. She needs to know that she can talk here not feel like people are going to ridicule her for talking about wanting to cut. She's done good so far and hasn't. But I could bet some of that reason is because she can talk to US.

[pigster]

Originally Posted by Open Your Eyes

That's exactly why I don't feel bad for them. They're not getting themselves help. If someone came to me with a real problem, I would get them help. Self-mutilation is a sin, you out of all people on Bandaids should know that. If someone needed help I'd give it to them.

And you're actually calling all the people on here who mutilate themselves "not real cutters" because they do "whatever" to hurt themselves and then come on here to talk about it. So you're saying that these people are just following the fad and further proving my point.

If someone needed help, I'd help them through a PM, but if they're just doing it so they can tell people about it and gain pity, then I'm sorry, but that's not right.

No I NEVER said that the people that come on here arent "real cutters" I said that some people do it because they think its a fad! My cousin does it for the heck of it because she thinks its cool, But if a person like bunny feels comfortable with talking with people on here then hey she can go rite ahead!

[Open Your Eyes]

Originally Posted by pigster

Well then there not "real" cutters...and they dont want to talk about it and they dont want any one else to know

In that first paragraph, you described what a "non-real cutter" is and it fit the description of just about everybody that posts in here. Especially in the part I quoted you on.

Anyways...back to some real secrets from the postsecret account. Anybody? Secrets?

[Smappy]

Yeah, this isn't even like a post secret thing anymore. Wasn't this supposed to be a thread only for the post secret account? Now it's more of a confessions/help thread. We already have the 'Don't let me get me' thread.

[Open Your Eyes]

I was thinking the same thing

[sweety7852000]

technically we are debating a secret
what Bunny said was a secret and we are supposed to be helping her with it
but instead everyone is fighting over if it's right or wrong.
that's NOT helping. as a matter of fact it's probably making it worse.

[Smappy]

If it was a secret, then the point of this thread is to use the secret account. There's a thread for stuff like this called "Don't let me get me" where you can tell each other shit and help each other out. This thread has completely lost its purpose.