Agree,you can't change anyone. You can make threads,you can make groups,you can stand on your head -- people won't change.
I think this is everywhere,not just Bandaids. You're slowly figuring out how this is not perfect. Cool. Fair.
The Best Damn Forum has the same thread,I would say. Wasn't a good idea to make a thread like that in both cases. You see,the people are like "I don't like that.. that,and that.."
Should have made a thread like "I LOVE EVERYONE" and give a gift to every member who posts in if you'd like this ~ reform ~